i was just voicing my opinion that it kind of stinks that people are so embarrassed of having ocs or anything like that, even more so if they were paired up with a canon, that they go into denial etc. i think, if the person acknowledges that they're being a little silly for doing so and is rather mature about their oc/canon shenanigans, it's alright! plus, people should look back on these sort of things and laugh about it!
when it comes to shipping, things can be a little muddled and stuff. i ship some admittedly messed up pairings (both crack wise and stuff where it can be kind of [OUT OF TUNE TRUMPET NOISES]) but i know that people aren't comfortable with it so i try to keep quiet about it, so i don't bother people with it.